Tuesday, January 21, 2020

The Fruit of Coercion


“We live in a globalized world where partly overlapping and partly contradictory visions of flourishing life coexist in the same public space.”[1] (Emphases mine)

If the above quote accurately describes the reality out of which today’s social interaction emerges (and I believe it does), then the choices and challenges before us become clearer.
1.     We can choose to do nothing: continue to live in a pluralistic environment in which some are comfortable, some are uncomfortable, and some are fearful (their fear falling along a spectrum from slightly uneasy and irritated to paranoid and enraged) because they can neither tolerate nor control the differences.
2.    We can choose the fight/flight response: declare that our vision of flourishing life is, indeed, the only right vision, and demand that everyone else agree and conform to our vision. When there is resistance to our demand, we can choose either to fight to inflict our vision on everyone else, or we can retreat from society and congratulate one another that we’re the only ones who are right.
3.    We can raise the reality to a new level: we can enter conversation with these partly overlapping and partly contradictory visions. Conversation leads to mutual understanding and to an openness that leads to mutual trust.
It arguably is true that humans will never be totally reconciled or united; nevertheless, God has, in Christ, reconciled the world to God's self, and has called all God's people to the work of reconciliation.[2] If God is reconciled to the world, and we are reconciled to God, then we also are reconciled to the world. Our lack of reconciliation with the world--or at least with one another--is one symptom of incomplete reconciliation with God. 
The third option above, which this blog is written to advocate, provides the only context in which any level of resolution and/or reconciliation can happen. Even if we assume ours is the only valid vision of flourishing life, and if we feel compelled and led to establish our vision as the basis and norm for all human society, this third option is the only context in which there is any hope of doing so.
One counselling model calls this context the “no-problem area” of human relationships. In education it’s called the “teachable moment.” A teacher may work all day (administrative, legislative and parental intrusions notwithstanding) to produce a five-minute window of eyes widened in wonder, brows furrowed in contemplation of new understandings. It is the only context of human relationships in which effective teaching, learning, playing, productivity, growing, and loving can happen.
In a combative or competitive atmosphere, where fear and mistrust dominate, none of the desirable ends described above can emerge.
One of the reasons the church has declined in the last three-quarters of a century is that evangelism and witness grew increasingly confrontational and coercive—even to the point of attempting to legislate morality and doctrine. In the face of sin and evil, while confrontation may in some instances engender conformity to a different standard and set of behavior, it never really creates a change of values or a change of heart. The more likely fruit of confrontation and coercion is resentment, anger, retaliation, and even an urge for revenge.
This is not to say that Christianity and the church should not have standards or boundaries. Moral and ethical norms are valid and necessary topics within the Christian faith; but there are effective ways, ineffective and even counterproductive ways to present our testimony and to address differences. Too many in the church have been counterproductive in addressing disagreements.
To be fair, there is merit to the evangelical critique of progressive Christianity, viz., that progressives too frequently present (intentionally or unintentionally) a moral anomie in which “anything goes.” Again, perhaps we progressives should focus more intentionally on the standards of Jesus (and grace and love were not his only standards); however, we cannot afford in the process to slip into patterns of counter-productive confrontation. Instead of coercive pontifications, we are called to “lift up Christ,” trusting that it is Christ, and not our power of persuasion, that will draw all people to him. [NOTE: “To Him,” if not to the church, per se.]
“The problem is, many of the people in need of saving are in churches, and at least part of what they need saving from is the idea that God sees the world in the same way they do.” ~ Barbara Brown Taylor
That’s how it looks through the Flawed Glass that is my world view.
Together in the Walk,
Jim



[1] Volf, Miroslav. For the Life of the World (Theology for the Life of the World) (p. 32). Baker Publishing Group. Kindle Edition.
[2] II Corinthians 5:18-20, et. al.


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