In virtually
every meeting he attended, a kind, sensitive and beloved pillar of the church pleaded,
“What can we do to attract younger adults and younger families?” His concern
was well-intentioned. North American churches have been in decline since the
late 1950’s; and, he has worked hard all his life to build his congregation and
keep it strong. Now advanced in age, he continues to do more than most church
members do; but his energy and strength are fading and he’s concerned about
seeing all his work go down the drain. Much church energy over the last few
decades has been devoted to “attracting younger adults and younger families.”
It will be 55 years this
August since I preached my first sermon at Hickory Tree Baptist Church in Balch
Springs, Texas. I was 18. During the years of my undergraduate schooling and
military service I preached now and then, doing youth revivals and filling the
pulpit when pastors were away.
In August, 1968 I returned from Vietnam, was
released from active duty and began work on my Master of Divinity at the
Graduate Seminary of Phillips University in Enid, Oklahoma. I also was called
as Student Pastor to First Christian Church of Waynoka, Oklahoma (almost in the
panhandle; go to the end of the world and turn left).
From then until October of
2005, I was a parish minister. That was the time of decline in the North
American church, and not even the emergence of entrepreneurial mega-churches slowed
down the decline. By the time I retired no denomination or association of
churches had escaped the slide.
Strangely, while church
membership and participation decreased, surveys and polls in the 90s began to
indicate that 95% of North Americans (plus or minus, depending upon the poll)
believed in God. Religious emphasis weeks on college and university campuses attracted
crowds, especially if featured speakers were celebrities or practitioners of
magic, eastern mysticism, witchcraft, Satanism or other fringe religion.
Around the turn of the 21st
century phrases began to emerge, like, “I’m spiritual but not religious,” and
Canadian churchman, Thomas G. Bandy collected and assimilated related data and
identified what he called the largest and fastest growing spiritual population
in North America: “the spiritually yearning, institutionally disillusioned
public.” The majority of that population, he observed, was under 40 years of
age.
When one observes the
typical church in North America, the overwhelming majority of those participating
will older than 60, it will be in a survival mode and its oft-repeated mantra
is, “What can we do to attract younger adults and younger families?”
About that same time the
1991 landmark work of William Strauss and Neil Howe, Generations, was making an impact on those who studied spiritual,
religious and ecclesiastical components of society. During my work as Transitional
Minister I have focused, with observable effect, on what my parents and
grandparents called “the generation gap;” except that today that gap is a
multiple one, separating six generations!
What I have discovered is
that the primary strategy by which the church struggles to survive is precisely
what’s strangling it to death: cutting expenses—and therefore ministries—across the board. In my estimation, it
would be better to narrow a congregation’s focus and to adequately fund one or
two meaningful ministries, than to try to keep the entire traditional slate of
seven (or however many) functional committees operating on shoestrings. There’s
just not enough mayonnaise left in the jar to spread the whole loaf!
That economic strategy is
one symptom of the church’s death rattle that has been heard for several
decades: “We never did it that way before.”
My favorite definition of
insanity is “doing the same thing again and expecting a different result.” Try
this: if you want to attract young adults and young families, ask them what
they want from a spiritual experience, and do that. You probably will discover
that you don’t have to replace the organ and the choir with drums, guitar and
video screens, although you may end up using both.
Theologian Walter Wink
writes: “American culture is presently in the first stages of a spiritual
renaissance. To the degree that this renaissance is Christian at all, it will
be the human figure of Jesus that galvanizes hearts to belief and action, and
not the Christ of the creeds or the Pauline doctrine of justification by grace
through faith.”[1]
Everything I hear and read
regarding the spirituality of millennial generations[2]
affirms the accuracy of Wink’s statement. Millennials care little about
doctrines or denominations or congregational polity. They want know how to
follow Jesus—to be more like Jesus. My nephew, a Millennial and a prolific
writer, has embarked on a one-year project to discover through study, prayer
and praxis what it means to follow Jesus (myjesusproject.com).
And so, when I came across
a book whose subtitle includes the phrase, “Why We All Need to Learn to Read
Scripture Like Jesus Did,” I was interested. It’s been challenging, as you can
discover by reading my previous seven blogs. It’s also enlightening and
inspiring, and I believe it points us in the right direction.
I’m with the Millennials
in that I really am not vested in the survival of any church or congregation
unless that church or congregation has a passion to follow Jesus. I agree with
Walter Wink that American Culture is in the first stages of a spiritual
renaissance, and I want to be in on it.
That’s how I see it
through the flawed glass that is my world view.
Together in the
Walk,
Jim
You continue to surprise me. I wish we could all be open minded to new ideals and ideas. I think your right, we spend so much time screaming at the top of our lungs, "The Bible is the absolute epitome of what's right and you better not say anything against God!", that we don't stop to actually study what we are defending. I know people who live their Christian life based solely on sermons they've heard preached instead of picking up a bible and reading it for themselves. I used to be that kind of Christian. It wasn't until I started reading for myself that I began asking silent questions. However, they mainly stayed silent because, in my education, God was never to be questioned. I'm getting so much from your blog and I'm trying to understand the book (it takes me a little longer than most to process information). Thanks again for taking this journey.
ReplyDeleteThere's a significant difference between questioning God (or the Bible) and questioning what people tell you about God or the Bible.
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